learning to finger masturbate and need help.

[learning lady]

I am hoping there is a mature women out there that can give me step by step instructions on how I can have a orgasm using my fingers and mybe a dildo.

[Virgo]

Hi, I'm not 'mature' as you put it, but I know how to give myself an orgasm. Are you asking how to masturbate to orgasm, or specifically how to use your fingers to stimulate your g-spot?
Generally I don't use fingers inside when I masturbate, but use my hands and fingers to stimulate my clitoris. Either way, there are no step by step instructions which will result in orgasm for you every time. That would be a little depressing :P You simply need to explore your body and learn what it is that feels good for you.

[learning lady]

Thank you and I would like to know how to work my fingers and the movements I need to do to have a orgasm of any kind.

[blondiebi]

move them around to make yourself feel good. there is no instruction guide on 'how to orgasm". it's all about what you like and what makes you feel good.

try relaxing, taking a bath, feel yourself & touch yourself.
as for a step by step.. I don't think there is anything like that out there, sorry!

[MistressSavanna]

All you have to do is just play around and see what feels best to YOU. It may take a few tries but trust me you'll get there It's fun exploring your own body! The one thing you might also try are toys, like vibrators. At first, I started off with just using my hands to rub my clit and I'd orgasm after about 10 minutes. As I progressed, I began to use vibrators on my clit and I'd cum in like 30 seconds! As I began to get more adventurous, I bought a "G-Spot" vibrator to actually go inside me with one hand holding it and also use my regular vibrator to go on my clit with the other hand. BEST ORGASMS EVER! So don't be afraid to experiment and see what works for you! You don't wanna miss out on the future fireworks

GOOD LUCK!