moaning during sex?

[mindy89]

i think i kinda let my bf down a lil bit cuz i dont moan or groan during sex...its not that i dont enjoy it cuz it feels so god damn good!!

i do tell him what feels good and so far he can make me orgasm by just rubbing.. not so much as during sex.. yet.. but even when he does that i dont moan...

at times i guess i feel like i should.. and sometimes want to but kinda feel embarrased to do so if that makes sense....
from seeing on films and that when people are intimate that it looks natural to make noises like that but i don't! it sucks cuz i think it would turn him on even more..

any ideas guys

[Virgo]

If you feel like moaning, moan, if you don't don't! Just do what feels natural to you, and let your boyfriend know what you like!

Most guys like to hear moaning because it boosts their ego, and because that's what they hear in porn, but if it isn't something which you feel comfortable with then don't let it worry you!

[CaptCurious]

Practice while you moaning while you masturbate. It'll help you feel less self-conscious about it.

-CC

Originally Posted by mindy89

i think i kinda let my bf down a lil bit cuz i dont moan or groan during sex...its not that i dont enjoy it cuz it feels so god damn good!!

i do tell him what feels good and so far he can make me orgasm by just rubbing.. not so much as during sex.. yet.. but even when he does that i dont moan...

at times i guess i feel like i should.. and sometimes want to but kinda feel embarrased to do so if that makes sense....
from seeing on films and that when people are intimate that it looks natural to make noises like that but i don't! it sucks cuz i think it would turn him on even more..

any ideas guys

[donsimon]

I like hearing my wife moan because it helps having feedback. If it gets a moan, I keep doing that. If things get quiet, I try something else. She isn't a huge moaner but I keep an ear open and watch for other signs. If she starts rubbing herself I am doing something right. If she updates her calendar, I try something else.

[pintara]

when man hearing woman moan during the sex thats really turn them on , it is very erotic , when female shows their rejection for my sexuall approach at first even better , then i'd accquired some satisfaction of conque when i had her . it feels exciting and wild stimulating .

its psyclogical thing .

[Jan_Jan]

yes i think it is a psychological thing, and it works both ways! i love hearing a man moan, especially if its when im in control, lets me know that im making him feel damn good and boosts my ego too! my current bf doesnt make a sound at all... its hard to adjust to, but you just have to find other things that get you aroused instead.

but at the end of the day, just do what feels natural. let your body go and enjoy it, and express yourself however your body wants to ^_^ just remember to reassure your bf - he may be worrying that he isnt doing it for you.