Size and Stamina

[Dave]

Has anyone else noticed a link between the size of a guys penis and how long he can last during sex?
Im a bit on the smaller side at 4 inches when hard and have always struggled to last during sex. I blame this on being very sensitive down there. I read somewhere about how bigger guys can last longer in bed as the nerve endings are further apart and so their penis is less sensitive.
So that would mean a small penis is more sensitive as the nerve endings are closer together.

Anyone have any views on that and/or advice on how i could last longer in bed?

At the moment i last about 2-3 mins at best but often i cum quicker because my penis is very sensitive and so i cant handle it for too long.

Any help would be appreciated.

[Budde]

Sounds more like urban legend then medical fact to me but I ain't a doctor nor do I play one on TV

[curiouslover]

I don't think that is true.. I'm about 4 1/2" and can last anywhere from 20-45 min.. You can learn to control your ejaculation by mastubating and holding back when your about to cum.. Or if that don't work, when your about to cum stop and go down on her for a bit.. then go back to having sex. That will make intercourse last alot longer.. then when you finally do decide to cum it will be massive and feel unbelievable!!

[rstallion]

There's a lot of good advice to last longer, just Google it. I can't post the link because I'm to new to the forum. But if you Google "2 girls teach sex - how-to-last-as-long-as-you-want-in-bed" you'll find a pretty good article. And, lasting 4 minutes really isn't that bad. The average is about 7 minutes and anything over 10 is too long. Getting from 4 to 7 is easy too.

[nai]

An uncut penis is more sensitive than a cut one (due to the stretch receptors in the foreskin and the way the foreskin protects the glans to prevent them from becoming de-sensitized). But I can't see any evidence that a smaller penis is more sensitive than a larger one. It would seem a shame to attempt to de-sensitize your penis and deny yourself the pleasure...so why not try some techniques to enable you to last longer.

[JakeBlunt]

Originally Posted by curiouslover

I don't think that is true.. I'm about 4 1/2" and can last anywhere from 20-45 min.. You can learn to control your ejaculation by mastubating and holding back when your about to cum.. Or if that don't work, when your about to cum stop and go down on her for a bit.. then go back to having sex. That will make intercourse last alot longer.. then when you finally do decide to cum it will be massive and feel unbelievable!!

Noted... I'll try this

[Zephirin]

I personally have found that my sensitivity often correlates directly to things like frequency of sex, frequency of masturbation, amount of sleep, etc. I can't really A/B between sizes due to the biological impossibility, but I doubt it really plays in that much.

1. You don't have to jackhammer. I know at least for myself that if I go at it like an Olympic sprinter, the end is near. That being said...
2. If your girl (or guy) really enjoys getting rammed like a piston, you can alternate between short bursts of high speed and long, slow thrusts.
3. There is something to be said for slow. They often can feel your full length slide in and out, which can be quite sensual.
4. Certain positions will stimulate your penis differently due to simple differences in anatomy.
5. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay! Unless they are really really dead set on getting their main play through intercourse, who really cares?

Hope this helps!

[Thin One]

I'm a longer length than 4" but also struggle with sensitivity so it can't really be based just on length. I've had a lot of problems with prostate and pelvic area which has made the head of my penis really sensitive and sometimes just as I'm getting a full erection I'm ready to come.

I think one of the main things I need to learn is relax and go slow which isn't always easy especially if like myself you only masturbate once a week....

[Ripper]

I think that as long as you are both reaching orgasm does it really matter how long you take? Plenty of foreplay on her should help assure an orgasm is forthcoming so it won't matter if you last 2 or 3 minutes

[davedaddy]

Size has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with stamina!