i don't last long :(

[somedude]

well i think i'm to horny or something
because when i ever masterbate i cum in like a minute

it's super embarrasing when i'm having cam sex with a girl..
does anyone know how can i last longer?

i'm still a virgin so when i do have intercourse i'll probably cum before it's even in

btw i'm 19

[Question11]

well there are a few things you can do. first, try not to focus on cumming so much, because being nervous and tense is never good.
Or you can purchase an erection desensitizing cream or a supplement designed to help men last longer.
Cumming from a minute of masturbation is not uncommon for some men, and some people firmly believe that mXbxn should be short. But yes, you do want it last longer with a women. so you can either control it psychologically/physiologically or purchase a product that enhances longer lasting erections. (cream or supplement or something else that's out there.)

[Ann Andriani]

Somedude,

I would stay away from the supplements and creams because this is absolutely something you can control on your own. Most men tend to cum very quickly when masturbating for a variety of reasons. Some start very young and it's something they feel they have to get finished with very quickly so they don't get caught, others have been doing it for so long that they know exactly what kind of touch, speed, etc. gets them off, so they can get themselves off immediately.

The key to lasting longer is to be able to read your body when you're masturbating and recognize when you're getting to that point of no return, the point when reaching orgasm is inevitable. You know exactly what gets you off, now it's time to change things up. If you have a strong grip and stroke yourself really fast, you should try a softer grip with a slower stroke. By doing something different, you may find you'll last longer.

While some of the links use the phrasing, premature ejaculation, I wouldn't necessarily say that you have that, however, the techniques and advice given can help you to learn about your body and last longer. The following are some links with ideas on to last longer:

http://jackinworld.com/techniques/ja...-games/stop-go

http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatom...olprematur.htm

If you have any further questions, don't hesitate to ask.
Ann

[Question11]

@Ann,
I confess, you know much more about this stuff than I do. However, using a supplement did wonders for me in this department. After taking it I do last much longer and have stronger erections.

@somedude, I just read Ann's links and they are really informative. read them before you buy any products.

[nai]

There's absolutely no point in using a cream/supplement at your age, somedude. You can control your orgasms in a perfectly natural way. Start by getting to know your PC muscles; these are the muscles that control urine and semen flow. As an example: when you pee and decide to stop mid-stream, you're using your pc muscles. Google "Kegel Exercises for men" and there are some good articles out there. It's just a case of getting to know yourself better. Educate yourself and practise Good luck!