MMF Should I Do IT?

[Rayhard]

Hers the deal. My wife and I have been married for 20 years. We do have a great time in the sack but there are things she is not into. No porn and no anal. She loves giving me bj and allows me to talk dirty doing sex. She even uses a dildo in front of me to get me really turned on. My problem is I can't c*m without telling her my fantasy about another guy f*ucking her. She says she dosen't mind me talking about it if it make my Orgasims better. Down deep I do want to see her with another man and both of us take her at the same time. Should I push this? Would I regreat it later? We have been married since high school and we have never been with anyone else.

Any advice?

[laredo]

A while back I watched my wife F*** another guy and it was a real turn on. He had a really large c***, almost twice as big as mine. She really enjoyed it and so did I.

[Luvoral]

I think you said it yourself. [Both of you taking her at the same time]. Then if you both enjoy that then maybe you can go with the watching another man alone with her.

We learned to discuss everything first,then gave it a try.We both love watching the other with someone else,espically me more than him but we just about all the time end up joining in. I am also bi so I love having the other girl but I always want his cum.

Of course we have a bond that will never be broken.

[Ann Andriani]

This is a popular fantasy for many men and couples, but it depends on the couple. Just because your wife can sexually describe a scenario to you during sex, doesn't mean she desires to bring another man into the bedroom. Also, the reality of it is much different than the fantasy. I'm not trying to piss on your parade here, but I've seen lots of couples dive right in and experience some real difficulties. There's a process to maybe making this a reality and the best advice I can give you is to obtain and read thoroughly, The Threesome Handbook by Vicky Vantoch

http://www.allsexreviews.com/threesome-handbook.html

In there she tells you how to go about bringing up the topic to your partner, questions for both of you to ask yourselves and each other to find out if this is something you should continue to explore, deciding on finding a third person, through the whole thing! It is THE book on Threesomes.

Also, Nina Hartley's Guide to Threesomes 2 Guys and a Girl will explicitly show you the possibilities that exist and the trouble spots you might encounter. Plus Nina's always provides an Q&A section, providing even more information for you. It's a great DVD to watch together. Once you see this fantasy acted out, it may help you both to decide if it's right for you. While this DVD is graphic in nature and does contain pornographic scenes, it will show you both exactly what you're in for when bringing another person into the bedroom.

If you're wife isn't open to exploring any of these resources, then I wouldn't advise going any further. If a couple can't talk and learn about this, they do not have the chops to see it through successfully. The key to being successful with additional partners in the bedroom is being able to talk about it all without getting pissy with each other, really talking and really listening.

If you have any further questions, don't hesitate to ask.
Ann