Please help..She will hardly have sex anymore

[weez]

Me and my girlfriend used to be very close, we moved in together about six months after we met and were very happy together and were having sex pretty much every day (believe it or not) sometimes more than once a day..then all of a sudden it was like I hit a brick wall..Eventually i asked what the problem was and why she didn't seem into sex lately. After some poking and prodding she finally just told me that it hurt when we had sex.. I dont get it..Did it not hurt before? Or was she just afraid to tell me? She had just started taking birth control when this started, and I know that can have an affect on hormones or whatever, but it cant make it hurt right? She is a very petite girl.. is it that my penis is too big? I mean its decent size but TOO big? We recently got into a little bit of a fight and in the midst of trading low blows she told me that it was never because it hurt it was because I was unattractive, then five minutes later told me that it was bs she just didnt have anything to come back at me with and that she loves sex with me. Now this I certainly dont understand because before we got to know each other our relationship was completely based on looks, but then we fell in love (i thought), and when we first got together she actually admitted (after a couple drinks and some charm ) that she had had a huge crush on me since high school and had always wanted to be with me but was too afraid to say anything..So can she really not be attracted to me now? Is she cheating? Does it really hurt? Is she just a conniving biotch? Someone please help. Hopefully there is a girl out there that understands this girl better than I do. Whats going on in her head? I felt like we always really connected and were truly in love. I dont want to waste anymore time w a girl that just wants to play head games when my life is way too busy for that.

[Virgo]

Try talking to her again? It sounds like she hasn't really given you any clear answers yet.

The only reason I can think for it hurting all of a sudden is that birth control can make a girl dry, so you may need to start using lubricant as friction HURTS!
But from your answer it seems that that is the least of your troubles :S Best bet is to have a good, long conversation, try not to get imaptient or fight with each other. Tell her you love her and you want to know what's wrong, then hear her side.

[weez]

The thing is that she insists now that its the pain. I would say that maybe it is friction, but when we start I seem to get her very wet(most of the time), do you think the outside could be getting dry during the actual intercourse and Im just not noticing because I'm inside her? If so why wouldnt she just tell me that? She did mention a rubbing, almost like it gets raw, but I suggested using some lube and she acted like that wouldnt help..Is she just lying and making excuses to not have sex w me? Is she really not attracted to me anymore?

[Virgo]

Has she seen her doctor? I would reccommend lube to see if that helps but she may have a vaginal infection such as thrush or cystitis (neither are sexually transmitted, both are very common in women) which can make sex extremely painful, trust me! They are easily treatable however.

But if you don't think she is attracted to you any more, then you may have no choice but to move on I can't tell you whether she is or isn't though, only she can.

All I know is that I had thrush for the first time last year, and it made sex so painful I could have screamed. I was so worried I went straight to my doctor, and I don't know how open your girlfriend is about private things like this, but I would question her not having told you before, or seeking a medical opinion.