need help for a weekend of fun

[SammieQ57]

so i am Bisexual is i guess what you call it i hate lable they make it so hard to really explain things but i only like women except for my fiance and i have a sex drive like no bodys business and i love trying new things. my fiance is coming to visit me *4 hour distance appart* and i want to really have some tricks up my sleeve. i have a french maid costume and a bondage outfit which i know he has been wanting to try any suggestions on role playing/positions and how to do dominatrix without it being cheesey will try anythign except by adding extra people

[Virgo]

What does being bisexual have to do with this?

Hmm, not sure what you count as 'cheesey', but you could try reading some erotic fiction on sites like literotica.com for ideas on how to act out your role/what to say.
You could tie him up and masturbate in front of him, or tease him by playing with him but not letting him cum for ages, spank him if he steps out of line, etc.

[SammieQ57]

thank you, to clear things up i mentioned i was bi sexual because this is the only guy i have ever been with and so i am not really sure what guys like in bed 100% of the time because i am so used to being with girls.

and by cheesy i just mean something that made him laugh instead of turned on.

thank you for the websight and the ideas i am going to go check it out!!

[Luvoral]

Guys like just about anything sexual. A nice leather outfit wouldn't be cheesy. Like Virgo said deni his orgasms and masturbate in front of him.Spank his ass,put him in bondage and use his tongue,put a cock ring on him with a leash and lead him around,use a strapon on him while stroking him,suck him until he's hard then sit on his face watching his cock head bulge, but don't let it turn purple. Make him masturbate in front of you and make him lick it off your body,feet,etc. Get him hard again and give him the fuck of his life. Then suck him off and swallow it. That's what guys really like

[WetWilly]

tie him down...you dominate but don't need the cliche "dominatrix" look...you get control and you can wear whatever you want

[SammieQ57]

thank you so much guys!! i was worried i couldn't pull off the whole dominatrix thing with out laughing.

any ideas on where to get role play scripts??

[Ann Andriani]

Here are some articles that may help you plan:

My article on Bedroom Bondage:
http://www.allsexguide.com/bedroom-bondage.htm

E-How's Article on How to be a Dominatrix:
http://www.ehow.com/how_4512595_be-a-dominatrix.html

Nina Hartley's Guide to Erotic Bondage (You can watch online):
She'll take you through whole scenarios
http://store.intimatesource.com/details.link/vid/5719

Most important things to keep in mind:

• Understand how to dominate safely. If you're going to do any whipping or spanking, make sure you understand the safety basics, my article and related articles should cover that.

• Be confident. Dominatrix's aren't afraid to make requests, take control and boss their lover around.

There are also a few books, it's too late to order them now for this weekend, but I recommend checking out your local bookstore:

The Sexually Dominant Woman by Lady Green

How to be a Dominant Diva by Georgia Payne

SM 101 by Jay Wiseman

Be safe and have fun!
Ann

[SammieQ57]

thank you everybody weekend was perfect

[samuel333]

When I was in college I was friends with a guy and his wife who were desperate for a threesome. Eventually, I obliged and it turned into the wildest 3 years of my life. It involved role playing and led into areas that would be flagged in this forum. It was absolutely consensual and what was fun about it was that it was like acting. You could do, say and suggest things that even a tight couple would never suggest to each other and it was understood that it was all part of the game. This gave free reign to all our fantasies, even the most extreme. We even built whole wardrobes around it. It never got boring, because we were never the same characters. I would recommend it over anything!